So you think you’re better than me?

It can be great to have a best friend. Someone who is like your other half, and someone you can really identify with, but i think it can be dangerous to identify too much with your friends. I know, that for some people it can get to a level where you see everything as a competition between yourself and your friends.
When I describe it like this, it really sound like I say that this wouldn’t be a pretty good friendship, but sometimes I see myself like this kind of person too, I have to admit that. It’s not very satisfying always being compared to others, to be the second best and to be the second choice. Never the less, people will always compare you to others, and mostly it will be the people close to you, which isn’t good, but it’s also impossible to avoid. There wouldn’t be any good without bad, so you can’t really blame anyone for this. You can just be yourself and hope for acceptance. Namaste.

Maneater

I guess most people know, that some woman have the ability to manipulate men, and use sex as a weapon. I don’t always think they notice it themself, it is something in their subconsciousness, but where does it come from? I mean, what affected them, so that they became like that? This isn’t one of those posts where i might have an answer, or at least an idea of what the answer could be.
Anyway, i think it’s so sad, for all parts that get involved, but what can you do?

Promises

When you are in a relationship, you have made a promise to each other about only being with eachother and no one else, but if one suddenly wanted to be with someone else, the other part would have absolutely no right to say no to his/her partner. Isn’t it weird that we make theese promises and deals that don’t really count for us anyway? Well, of course they count, but they are often being broken. Just look at all the people who are getting divorced, maybe it went so wrong for them because they promised each other too much. Someone once told me, that you should never promise another person more than you were absolutely sure you could live up too, and i really believe that.

Most happiness to as many as possible

We discussed this in my philosophy class the other day. Would the best thing be, if as many people as possible were as happy as they could get? Even if some people would get hurt in the process?
For example, what if you killed someone against the persons will, and gave all the persons organs to some who really needed them? The person whose organs you took propably wouldn’t be happy about it, but it would make a lot more people happy. Would it be worth it to take the happiness from one person if you could give happiness to maybe 10 more?
Of course you would never do this, but i find the idea very interresting. What do you think?

Responsible snowmen?

I know that i’m not the only one who find it pretty scary to grow up. As a child you only wish to grow older and get responsibility, but when you are so close to being an adult, “resposibility” suddenly sound very different. I guess it’s the idea of responsibility that scares most people, me included. But why? If i really think about it, what is it then, that i think will happen to me? Absolutely nothing! So many other people have managed to do it, so why shouldn’t I?
I guess you shouldn’t think too much about it, sometimes it’s okay if you just want to watch cartoons and build showmen.

The “I love You”-phenomenon

I don’t know if the “I love You”-phenomenon have existed in many decades, or just as long as i have been a teenager. When i say the “I love You”-phenomenon, i mean when everybody tells each other how much they love one another, all the time. Don’t get me wrong, love is the most amazing thing in the world, but you shouldn’t over do it.
You actually don’t hear the words much in your everyday life, but on Facebook for example, people say it all the time. What really makes me wonder is that people post it on each others Facebook walls instead of using private messages. I guess it’s just a way of drawing attention to yourself, and making yourself likeable. It is all about getting “likes”.